Is your neurodivergent student dreaming of college? The path to higher education can feel overwhelming, but with the right knowledge and preparation, it’s absolutely achievable. Let’s break down the college admissions process and explore how to support your student every step of the way.
Decoding the college admissions process
What does the college application process look like for neurodivergent students? Here’s a breakdown of terms you will hear along the way and what they mean:
- College readiness: Determining if a student is ready for the academic and social demands of college.
- Building a college list: Finding colleges that are a good fit academically, socially and emotionally.
- Extracurricular activities: Participating in activities that showcase a student’s interests and skills.
- Summer activities: Using the summer before college to gain experience and prepare for the transition.
- Gap year: Considering the pros and cons of taking a year off before starting college.
- College support: Identifying and accessing support systems available in college.
- Essays and resumes: Crafting compelling essays and resumes that highlight a student’s strengths.
- Interviews: Preparing for and acing college interviews.
- Application completion: Completing the Common App, UC App, or other applications accurately and on time.
- Scholarships and financial aid: Maximizing scholarship opportunities and appealing financial aid decisions when necessary.
Common challenges and how to overcome them
What challenges do neurodivergent college students commonly face during the college application process?
- Maintaining consistent grades: It can be tough to excel in all subjects. Colleges often look for well-rounded students.
- Standardized tests: Some students struggle with timed standardized tests, even if they perform well in school. Fortunately, many colleges are now test-optional.
- Managing deadlines: Time management can be challenging for students with ADHD, autism, dyslexia and other learning differences. Starting the application process early is key.
- Writing essays: College application essays are different from high school essays. They require reflection and introspection, which can be difficult for some students.
- Building a college list: Finding the right fit can be complex, especially for neurodivergent students.
- Communicating with admissions staff: Knowing who to talk to and what to say can be daunting.
- Stress and confusion: The entire process can be stressful and confusing, with many moving parts.
According to parent feedback, here are the top five challenges they see their learner experiencing:
- Finding support in college
- Selecting colleges
- Writing essays
- Managing time
- Workload
To help families find the right colleges Dr. Eric Endlich, a neurodivergent expert in the college experience, created a database of neurodivergent-friendly colleges. This database includes over 200 colleges that offer services above and beyond the bare minimum. You can even sort the database by state and find information on the cost of support programs.
Should you disclose a diagnosis?
Should your neurodivergent college aged student disclose their diagnosis during the college application process? It’s completely optional!
Colleges don’t require disclosure, and there’s no evidence that it will help or hurt your chances of admission. However, there are situations where disclosure might be beneficial:
- Explaining something: If your student has an unusual grade pattern or didn’t take certain courses, disclosure can provide context.
- Sharing your story: If your student is proud of their journey and wants to share their experiences, an essay or interview can be a great way to do so.
Keep in mind that if your student wants to receive disability accommodations in college, they will need to disclose their diagnosis after being accepted.
Getting into college is only half the battle. Getting through college is equally important! Make sure your student is prepared for the academic and social demands of college life.
Essential skills for college success
What skills does your student need to thrive in college?
- Self-awareness: Knowing their challenges, strengths and support needs.
- Self-management: Managing their emotions, sleep habits, social media use and other aspects of their life.
Self-advocacy is crucial. In college, students are responsible for seeking out and arranging their own support services. Parents can help by gradually shifting tasks and responsibilities to their students.
Encourage your student to:
- Seek professional support from therapists or academic coaches.
- Take life skills courses.
- Participate in summer college readiness programs.
Also, there’s nothing wrong with considering a gap year! Research shows that students who take a gap year are more likely to graduate on time, get better grades, and be more clear about what they want to study.
Support systems in college
What types of support are available in college?
- Disability accommodations: Almost all colleges offer basic accommodations like extra time on tests.
- Additional a la carte services: Some colleges offer academic coaching, executive function coaching or peer mentoring.
- Comprehensive learning support programs: These robust programs offer a wide range of services, including coaching, mentoring, social events and more.
Additional resources in college include:
- Mental health counseling
- Academic and career advising
- Tutoring
- Wellness communities
- Clubs and organizations
If your student needs additional support, consider external options like private therapists, coaches or residential programs.
Remember, self-advocacy is key. Encourage your student to utilize all available resources!
Essential resources for neurodivergent college students
Here are some helpful resources available today:
- Free Executive Function Assessment: If you suspect your student has executive function challenges, this assessment can help pinpoint areas to focus on. It’s a peer-reviewed diagnostic tool that takes about 15 minutes to complete.
- Digital SAT Computer Adaptive Assessment: Is your student planning to take the digital SAT? This assessment offers extended time options and provides a detailed diagnostic report. It can be a great starting point for making informed decisions about the SAT.
- Connect with experts: You can schedule a call with an educational therapist or specialist to discuss your student’s unique needs and create a personalized plan.
Conclusion
Preparing for college can feel like a marathon, but with the right strategies your neurodivergent student can thrive! Start early, develop a plan for ongoing support and empower your student to advocate for their needs.
Do you have questions or feedback? Leave a comment below!
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